Love Yourself

There is a kind of saying in America, \" no one can love you before you love yourself \" ,and I think it is really very important to love yourself.

Who can stay along with you 24 hours a day even all of your life? Who can understand your needs precisely? Who can read your thoughts correctly? Who can find your hope and dream accurately? Yes, there is nobody can understand your inconvenience every time and no one can take notice of your reluctance. Cinderella has no mother to love her, and her stepmother doesn't love her too, but this can't make her doesn't love herself. It is her self-love that makes her has the possibility to find what she wants to get. So to you, you really need to love yourself.

Love yourself is also very important to others. Self-love not only can help you understand yourself more, accept yourself, and it aims to make all people can really understand that you are worthy of being respected, approved, cherished and loved. Self-love comes from goodwill and respect, without it, your relationship with others will be affected directly, and it mainly shows on confidence lack, too much suspect, distrust for others. If one doesn't love himself, he will have no ability to love others. According to the research, when one lacks self-love, there are always appearing two kind of situations.

People may ask too much for love or sometimes refuse love. When a person who doesn't love himself, he may feel that he has nothing useful and meaningful to give others. When he gives something to others, he may think he will have nothing to leave.

To both of us, if we love ourselves and care ourselves, we will understand what are others' feelings in the same situation and help others. Then to each of us, we will get a friend not just a stranger. The British famous writer Oscar Wilde once said, \" to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance \" , and how to begin the romance. I suggest you just need to remember one thing nobody can stop you love yourself. No one can prevent Cinderella to attend the prince's ball, and nobody can stop her to be the queen, only herself.

So from now on, you need to begin to care about yourself. When

you feel tired, please stop after getting power; When you feel confused, please stop your footstep to put your feelings in order and drive the confusion away; When you feel painful, please stop to fondle the bleeding wound and dry the tears to go on; When you want to give up, please have a rest to decide what should accept or reject, then raise your spirit to go on your journey. If you think others don't give you enough love, you should love yourself more. If others don't give you chances, you should try your best to give

yourself chances. If you really love yourself , you may get something you really need. So begin to love yourself from this moment.