梦想Everyone has a lot of dreams

梦想Everyone has a lot of dreams. Some people want to be rich, dreaming of becoming millionaires overnight. Others want to be famous, dreaming of suddenly jumping to great fame. I have a lot of dreams,too. When I was a young girl, I dreamed of becoming a scientist like Hua Luogen in future.However, I knew very well that I could not succeed without painstaking efforts. So I studied hard in the middle school and college in order to attain my goal.After graduating from college, I found a job as a teacher.Although I was very busy with teaching, I never gave up my goal. I read a lot of books to get more knowledge. I made experiments to practise and apply what I had learnt from the books. Sometimes, I was so deeply indulged in my research that I forgot my meals and time. Now I have made great progress. Several of my research papers have been published. The methods proposed in my papers have been proven to be valuable for the solution of some problems. I am very happy.The ladder of becoming a scientist is still far ahead, but I have climbed the first rung anyway.

When my colleague said, with his spit splashing everywhere, that women are realistic; women don’t worry about life; women needn’t work under pressure; all women have to do were to marry a prosperous man„I was really very angry at him, especially when he was just the college graduate several months ago. It was reasonable that he lacked social skills and work experience. However, what surprised me was that he was next to a bird in using the computer. Moreover, his behavior in daily work and life all showed me that he was definitely a silly guy-I was not familiar with him and had no interest to know more about him, but I said “life” here because he had always talked about his life saying so many girls so kind to him that he really didn’t know how to refuse them, and because he had steamed bread as his meals in the office and brewed up a big bottle of three bags of soya-bean milk at the same time.

How could such a poor silly boy talk about women in such a subjective way! How many women had he ever met!

I just wanted to keep my mouth and ears shut off against him.

What am I doing now? Why is my life so tough? Why are my friends struggling for their own house and car?

Many women work better and earn more than men! Many women are single! Many women are independent!

Women have the right to pursue excellent men, because excellent men are positive, self-confident and respect others, which should be the human. Women are realistic but that should be people’s attitude toward life. But to be correct, being realistic doesn’t mean that women would judge a man merely by his property.

Maybe you, the silly boy, can find some, or even a lot of examples to verify your words. Nevertheless, these examples would just be a part of women and far away from being the majority.

Well, I am sorry that I might have been lost my temper by writing the above with some improper words. I am not going to argue with men at all. I believe in the cause and effect theory so I think I can understand all behavior of men and women. However, I reject absol

uteness. That’s why I lost my temper.

Sorry, I have always wanted to be rational, calm and gentle to everybody. I will try my best„